My dad & me (very sad)....

NE1 · Neither Shallow Nor Sexist Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 1538

.....don't read on if you don't want to cry, I am crying as I type.

I may not post much in the weeks to come. You may remember I wanted Barnsley to get to the cup final as my dad was unwell. Well this cup final will be his last. We found out on Thursday that he has terminal cancer and we have days/weeks together. (Thursday as you can imagine was not one of my best days in my life).

I will be spending as much time with him as he will let me (grumpy old Yorkshireman - doesn't want a fuss). First aim is cup final day....then play off final day (I won't be going to Wembley but Leeds had better be),...then his birthday 30/5....then my parents wedding anniversary 7/6 and after that who knows..............

I will keep posting & reading as this will be my relief. I am in bits, bear with me. Thanks.

Crying or Very sad

cardboardbox?Youwerelucky · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 8:47 am Post subject:

Bron - Savour as many moments with him as you can

I know that as a proud yorkshireman your Dad will NOT want the fuss - but try your best to persuade him that things are his idea and try to fulfil any things he wishes he had done but never got around to doing

I don't know how old he is but try to spend as much time as you can and make as many of his days / weeks / months finish with a smile on his face

Thinking of you and your Dad

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raveydavey · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:04 am Post subject:

Bron I'm really sorry to hear that.

You only get one dad and for all their faults they are still the best dad in the world.

Our thoughts are with you, your dad and the rest of your family.

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kevin177 · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:13 am Post subject:

My thoughts are with you, your dad and your family Bron.

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Mort · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:24 am Post subject:

Thinking of you and your family Bron.

HarryofOz · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 11:35 am Post subject:

Big huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug for you Bron

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Baldy · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 12:36 pm Post subject:

Bron, savour every second you have with your Dad, tis a distressing time for all your family, and words cant describe the emotional roller coaster, you will all endure, Be there for your Mum, she will will need all the support you can muster, Our thoughts and prayers from Australia, are with you.

wewantourdarbyback · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 2:06 pm Post subject:

Savour the last bit you have Bron, it will be horrible when he is gone. I can't remember my Dad and i wish I could, at least it appears the he will know how much you care about him.

My thoughts are with your family

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Tommo · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject:

Thoughts with you and your family Bron, you have my number if you need it xxxx

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eddiesleftfoot · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 5:31 pm Post subject:

I echo the above statements

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NE1 · Neither Shallow Nor Sexist Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 1538

you are all so very kind.

None of you know me or my dad but we really appreciate your support

A big massive thanks.

30 Mill · Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 9:13 pm Post subject:

Sorry to hear this

Make sure you spend time looking after your family as well as everyone will be affected too. look after your mam as well, this is going to be very hard on her

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halfaperson · Allan Clarke Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Posts: 752

Sad indeed. Thoughts are with you both.

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NE1 · Neither Shallow Nor Sexist Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 1538

thanks again for your support.

No pressure, but my dad is expecting Leeds in the play-off final Smile

ArmleyWhite · Posted: Sun May 04, 2008 9:21 pm Post subject:

Bron, never met you but I feel like Iv'e known you for years. So sorry to hear of your news. I lost my dad just before xmas last year and it's been hard. Chin up and my thoughts are with you and your family at this time..

Lost of love

Simon

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Gopher · Posted: Wed May 07, 2008 5:31 am Post subject:

Big hug from me Bron, you know that I will be thinking of you and your dad and that the time you have left is precious. Post when you can, and don`t worry about us, we are all ugly enough [some more than others, no names mentioned Wink

] to look after ourselves.

Anything you need Bron, just ask any of the mods here ok. We are all here for you.

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